Keep your between you and your opponent: The essence of in Jiu jitsu is to use your legs as a barrier between you and your opponent. This is what enables , weaker people to wear down and bigger, stronger people – for the legs of a small person are stronger than the arms of a bigger person. Your first in this game when underneath must always be to get your feet knees and hips between you and the other guy. Whenever you're in – retract your knees to chest and face your opponent!