Fight the connection: In to make a move a move in grappling, an must begin with some form of connection – if you that connection early on – the of the move be nullified. There are many ways to break connection but in most cases the best place to start is at the end of the lever – the hands and feet. They are usually the primary connectors to the and if they can make effective contact the move is generally lost. So when you feel danger encroaching – break that connection and then start getting into your offense!!