When you're the more experienced or bigger partner – start in with disadvantage: We all have a wide variety of training . Inevitably there will be big variations in size and skill level among them – so don't treat them all the same. When you are more experienced or bigger – don't start neutral as you would for someone your own size or skill level – start with some form of disadvantage so you get more out of the and work you might not otherwise work and at the same make it more . When you do this you can be in a room full of small white belts and still get a good workout. It's not about who you beat in the gym – it's about beating who you were yesterday – and starting with disadvantage is the best way to do this when training with people you already know you can easily beat.