Stance first – second: Everything in jiu jitsu starts with stance. Before you even establish contact with an you should have your stance set appropriately. For every in scenario, you'll have to change to a new stance. STANCE BEFORE EVERYTHING – before contact, before motion, before any given move – there is a stance that makes you efficient and the further you deviate from that ideal stance the less effective and efficient you will be. A huge part of winning in this game is just having the discipline to get into and maintain your stance better than your opponent does. time you're watching a at work – don't just watch his MOVES – watch his diligent attention to maintaining a stance and switching from stance to another as the unfold – for it is only THIS which makes those moves possible