Fight them with your legs: One of the most fundamental aspects of Jiu jitsu is it's philosophy of always seeking to match your legs against your 's whenever . All the best positions and submissions in Jiu jitsu involve you connecting your legs to your opponent's to take advantage of the fact that the human body has a basic asymmetry between upper body strength and versus lower body strength and endurance. If you can consistently match your lower body against an upper body you'll have a great advantage even when you're smaller than your opponent. Make it your mission to always lead with your legs and you'll go far in this !